An Old Friend, A New Perspective…

A few weeks ago, we learned a friend from way back was going to be in the area on his way from Illinois to Florida with his family, so he came by and brought the fam.  That in itself was very unusual – after 10 years of friendship and various business associations and partnerships, we had somehow never gotten around to meeting his family in person.

But on this day earlier this summer, they all stopped in, and his wife and two kids (the oldest was off on some kind of school function) were really very nice, fun, and interesting people – we had a great day together.  Their kids, although quite a bit older than my kids, were nonetheless kept entertained by my kids, especially their pet rats.  Overall, it was a great visit with a nice family –  we really should have gotten together sooner!

And I have some advice for our friend: appreciate what you have, buddy.

I don’t know why he does some of the things he does, but he sometimes acts, um, I’ll call it restless, and now that I know how awesome his wife and kids are, it’s going to be that much more difficult for me if I continue to hear about any more dumb choices on his part.  He seems to be going through some sort of mid-life crisis, so I can only hope that he finds what it is he’s looking for without hurting those wonderful people who love him!

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3 Responses to “An Old Friend, A New Perspective…”

  1. mary911 Says:

    What a difficult situation for you to be in….yes, I hope his midlife crisis dissolves soon. Happy thoughts, happy thoughts…..

  2. jamiahsh Says:

    Very sound advice

  3. derek Says:

    I’m sure you all have figured it out by now, but even though I share some attributes with this person (“a friend from way back”- at least I hope!- and “Illinois”), she is not talking about me, though maybe the mid-life crisis part could apply…

    nah. 😉

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